On To the Next Thing

I made it to the end of my project but not without some difficulty. It has been very hard to remain motivated because a majority of the work has been finished. But while I put together the list of things that had been completed over the last two weeks, I realized that I had accomplished many things that are going to benefit the project. I was really happy that over the last week there were some new resources that proved to be really helpful and some people that proved to be really helpful as well. I'm really happy that a bunch of images and information that we need, we will be able to have. Although I felt terrible last week and this week I didn't feel so great I made it through and I accomplished the things I needed to.

Meanwhile, this afternoon I got unexpected news that the job that I had put in for a few weeks ago wasn't going to be mine. I logged into the website and saw that although my resume had been under review for two weeks, I wasn't chosen for it. It's a disappointment and I was hoping that this time the scenario would turn out differently but I guess this just was not my time or the right job for me. But I have to keep going anyhow. It's especially difficult after the last two weeks when there was so many positive things happening. But I know that not getting this job doesn't cancel out those positive things that have been going on. I have to keep hoping and keep waiting. It's hard but I can't give up. Many cliches apply here (It's always darkest before the dawn) but I know that everything is going to work out the way that it needs to and should.

I believe that even though I thought this job would finally be the victory I had been looking forward to for so long there will be something greater to come at the right time that is exactly what I want and need.

A God Scripted Life

I realize that my blogging has not gotten any better but I have had really good reasons for being off the radar. I developed another head cold last week and I was trying to only be online when I had to and was asleep the rest of the time. But I also had some awesome things happen that were far away from the Internet. The main awesome thing was that I received confirmation that New Jersey ( at least for now, hopefully New York in the future) is where I am supposed to be right now. I was in my new fellowship class at church for the information session and the Lord spoke through one of the ministers there are told me that I was in the right place and that I was going to be planted like a tree by the rivers of water (Psalm 1). I was also told that I was in transition but the transition was complete. I was extremely thrilled by this revelation and it completely changed my outlook on life. Knowing that you are where you're supposed to be is so satisfying because it means that I didn't get here by mistake and I am not far away from where I should be or making guesses about where to go but I am perfectly on track and being led where I need to go. I also went to a conference at church and this past weekend and it was so great. For the last two years I have been going through a lot and I didn't always know why. I got confused, upset, angry, frustrated, depressed, sad, and overwhlemed on a weekly if not daily basis. I got little snippets and insights into what was going on and what I needed to do. But I still didn't know what was going on or what was happening to me. But over a three day weekend I got more insight than I had in a year. I thought back to Pastor Dave's words for me the previous weekend and realized that I was getting the revelation of what was going on the past two years that got me to where I needed to be. I think if I had known all this beforehand I would have just given up somewhere along the way because it was so hard but because I didn't know what was happening I had to keep going because I was desperate to get to a place of understanding and that was not going to happen where I was. So I finally got the revelation of what the process had been and why the process was what it was. I feel like like I am very close to my breakthrough and I feel like a new chapter has begun. I can turn the page on what was or could have been if everything went like I wanted to and just know now that I am in the right place at the right time and I am moving forward to what God had purposed me for: my specific life plan. Last week I was in the bookstore and I was looking for something to read because I had finished all my books at home. I scowered the shelves and looked for titles that seemed to grab my attention. I found several and most of them had to do with trials and circumstances and making it through the difficult times. Then there was one that stood out about having the life that you have always imagined and more. It's called "When God Writes Your Life Story". I put away all those other books and decided that I was going to read about having the life I always wanted not the life of staying in a pit and walking in circles around the same issues. I decided that I wanted to focus on the promise God spoke and that that meant that I was coming out and that I already had victory over this situation. Then I brought the book home and started reading it and realized that not only was that book exactly what I needed but it was confirming things that I had just learned this past weekend at the conference. To live the life you have dreamed of having if not one that is better than what you have imagined you have to be completely sold out for God. You have to center your life completely around him in every way and you have to give yourself over to his will and purpose which is to have relationship with you and to use you for his purpose. Such revelation. One of the key points that the authors Eric and Leslie Ludy point out is that you can't live half in and half out of a Christian life, you have to be completely committed. It seems like a lot to give but what you give is nothing compared to what you gain which is a life with purpose, a personal relationship with God and a life that is scripted in a way that you would never be able to author on your own. Eric and Leslie put you though a spiritual boot camp in their book. The questions are not easy to answer because it involves looking at yourself in a very revealing light. But if you aren't completely honest and open about even your deepest secrets then how can you completely turn your full self over to the Lord? You have to be willing to yield control and exercise strong patience and trust that God can turn you into the person you need, want and were created to be and that you will get to where you need to be when you need to get there. I am so glad to know that things are working even when I can't see them and that patience does work even when it seems to not be.

Galatians 6:9

I Have Been a Neglectful Blogger

Hello Blogging World! I have been a really bad blogger with good reason mind you. I was ill for about a month and during that time it was all that I could do to soldier on for my contract work let alone think of creative things to blog. But I am back now and hoping to make a more conscious effort to blog consistently.

Sadly, I don't even know what was going on in my life the last time that I blogged. But I can't believe that it is May. Right now the three things that are preoccupying my mind and time are looking for jobs (STILL), finishing my contract work, and preparing for my cousin's wedding next month. The wedding thing is the most interesting because I grew up with this cousin, unlike my other cousins who are 7 years or more younger than me. We used to see each other very often and we went on family vacations together and I stayed at her house and she stayed at mine. We were always together. And it is just so weird that she is already getting married. It still feels like I shouldn't be at this point in my life where people are getting married. And if that were not enough to handle my best friend and sophomore year roommate from college is having a baby this fall. Where did the time go? I think I am even more preoccupied with this because I look at myself and think what in the world have I been doing all this time while these people were establishing relationships that are leading to marriage and families. I was just telling a friend of mine from high school last weekend that I feel like instead of going through my twenties I am in a prolonged teenage-hood. I have no idea how I got here either. I had all these plans and dreams and goals three years ago and when I looked to the future I saw things going in a much different direction. But I guess figuring it all out is what the twenties are for for some of us and for the rest of us we will get a clue at thirty. It is strange that I have about a year and a half of being in my twenties and then it's on to the next decade. Wow, next decade. This year is my tenth high school reunion. I think it will really be an eye opener when I have my 10th college reunion. I am not even going to talk about that. But one of the things that I am trying to focus on is the fact that it is not the destination but the journey. I know that the things that I have been through and the things that I am going through now are making me into who I need to be in the future. And I look forward to getting to that future. It's not just about having things but having relationship with people that you love and enjoying each and everyday whether or not things are exactly the way you would want them or not.It's a hard lesson to learn and to live. This past Sunday at church Pastor Jason was talking about how each of us has a specific plan and purpose for our lives and that plan and purpose is not identical to anyone else's because God created us to be unique and to be the one and only of us that He made. So we shouldn't be trying to copy someone else. live by someone else's rules, and basically conforming to be like other people. I am still learning how to be free to be me. As Joyce Meyer says, "You're Who is NOT Your DO." Meaning we are not what we do for a living or who we know or what we can provide for someone else each one of us matters and serves a purpose because we are created to fill a certain need. If all you can do is smile or give a hug or be a friend or send a note of encouragement then you do that to it's best and it's fullest and don't worry about what everyone else is doing. It's taking awhile but I am learning this lesson too. I am still trying to figure out/waiting to find out what I am good at, what my gifts and talents are and what my purpose is. I know that I have to become the person I need to be in order to fulfill my purpose and my calling and I am still being shaped into that person. And it does get frustrating along the way. For so long I felt like a loser because I felt that I needed to be where many of my peers are. And two and a half years ago I felt like I was headed in their same direction. Then all of a sudden there was a fork in the road and I went right and they went left. It was a very long journey just to get to the understanding that I still had worth and value even if my bank account was low and I worked for a piddly amount of money compared to what my friends were earning. But I have learned to take joy in the small things and in the things that I can do. Two exciting things that are happening this week are that I went to get Greek food today (my favorite food) and learned that there is a Greek festival this weekend! Yay! I am looking forward to hopefully going to that if the weather is nice. And thanks to a blessing from the Lord I have the money to pay a bill that I need to pay this week when I didn't think that I would have the money to do it. Two years ago I would have had a poor me attitude and would have been justifying it with a sense of entitlement. But I am overjoyed that there is a Greek festival going on and that I am paying a bill and getting closer to not being in a financial hole any longer. And I also believe that very soon I will be writing a post about my new job in the City. And I look forward to it but I am patiently waiting for the time that it is supposed to happen instead of trying to force it to happen on my own.

Any way all this to say that this is life. Life as I used to think is not something that when you get it together you enter into but these things are the things that make life and I am fine with that now and I know that many people out there are going through the same thing and I wish them well on their journey and I know that they will come out on the other side!

PS- RIP Lena Horne (1917-2010) She was a truly beauty and legend and there will never be another like her!